When it comes to enjoying a partner, lovers or another it is so important to remember that through sacred connection and pleasure, a bliss state of transcendental oneness can be experienced… (and more)
To have the honour of worshipping another, of giving and serving love and energy in honour and respect of the divine essence of each other- that is tantra.
To show up with an open heart and mind, giving to another in an act of love is the greatest opportunity and so when it comes to pleasuring and opening another soul there are a few aspects to touch (or taste) on;
Oral
To have the honour of tasting the sacred nectar, Amrita of another is so sacred and special. Connection of the tongue and either yoni or lingam is a divine microcosmic orbit within itself. To worship, devour and deliciously enjoy swallowing a lover should be enjoyed in whatever way feels most natural and enjoyable for both (or all) involved. Not focusing on climax, never the peak rather the whole mountain trail itself.
Remember, ejaculation is never the goal.
Ejaculation is not orgasm.
Some ideas for oral enjoyment;
Take your time! To enjoy each lick and suck the elixir and taste of a lover is an honour. The pheromones, the individual flavour should be savoured in each mouthful.
The Yoni should be sucked and savoured, licked and loved and shown all the energy and time in the world. The yoni, the sacred flower herself takes approx. 45 mins to blossom. Each individual flower is exactly that, individual - so tune into HER. Focusing on sharing the love around HER.
The Lingam should be sucked and savoured, licked and loved and shown all the energy and time in the world. The sacred sword of light, throbbing with source energy himself, deserves to be swallowed and shown all the love and energy HE deserves. Individually tune into HIS frequency
Anal
To Enter, or feel another fill you through anal play is precious and playful. Fulfilling and such a sacred connection that is enjoyed in the plenty. When you are either toying with each other through lingam connection, crystal wand, obsidian cock or anal- the sensation of satisfaction at such intensity can be so erotic and enjoyable. Moving slowly, with trust and plenty of time to devote to exploring and experiencing different depths of pleasure and play.
Some Ideas for Anal Enjoyment;
The breathe is the biggest factor. Slowing your mind and body down through the power of breath as a sacred tool to your deepest fulfilment. Allowing yourself to take time to feel and flow organically with how you are in the present moment.
Receiving with an open heart, relaxing with the breath and flowing with the natural flow of such a fulfilling, deeply satisfying moment. Pressing through and rubbing onto the spot and the pressure points within the pussy walls. Also the prostate is deeply massaged and pleasure is magnified through anal pressure and play.
Touch
To touch, trace your fingertips and connect with another soul is an honour. To use the hands, the senses through the fingers to feel and flow the energy through you and onto another body is a divine delight. Remember to allow the feeling to guide you, communicate through connection and really listen to how the body reacts to your touch.
Some Ideas for Touch Enjoyment
The sensations that can be created, felt and experienced through touch are unlimited! Allow how you FEEL guide you, explore and play with the arrangement of sensations that touch has. Follow your heart and breathe into the present moment.
Where do you feel the energy/sensation in your body?
Touching the Yoni is a delicate delightful honour. Remembering that every single flower is individual, there is no ‘one right way’ to touch her. Slowing down to soften, what does she react too? How does she like to be played with? Don’t be scared to ask, open clear communication is key to diving deeper into pleasure.
Stroking the sacred sword of light is an honour. Remembering every Lingam is individual and there is no one right way to touch him. Slow down and savour each stroke, remember that ejaculation is not orgasm. How does he react? How does he like to be played with? Don’t be scared to ask, open clear communication is key to diving deeper into pleasure.